The Amazing Powers of Managing Your Ejaculations and Testosterone Levels
Do you feel tired? Are you suffering from any form of erectile dysfunction? Most of you guys are in a constant state of depletion because you ejaculate too often and eventually it catches up with you.
The older you are the longer it takes your body to replenish itself. Under 35 it takes approximately 3 days to recover, if you are over 35 approximately 8 days! Most men ejaculate much more than that, so it makes sense that once you reach your 40’s and 50’s it is likely that you will be suffering with some form of erectile dysfunction.
According to Ancient Taoists, the most common reason for erectile dysfunction is excessive ejaculation. The main cure is creating more sexual energy without ejaculation.
Now this does not mean no orgasm guys, it actually means lots of orgasms and much more…
Most people think orgasm and ejaculation for men are one and same, but ejaculation is a reflex and a function of the sympathetic nervous system, orgasm is a function of the parasympathetic nervous system. You can learn how to separate these and the benefits are amazing!
By practising semen retention, you will be able to manage your sexual response and condition your body so that sexual stimulation can last as long as you choose. Women need between 20 and 40 minutes of penetration to experience those mind blowing orgasms. You will have a deeper sense of self-confidence, knowing you can satisfy your partner.
You are capable of being just as orgasmic as women, but not if you ejaculate! As you know, you normally fall asleep after the first ejaculation, even though there are some rare men who can cope with a second or third round. By practising semen retention, you can have full, whole body, multiple orgasms, with one rolling continuously into the next.
Increased Sex Drive!
A Chinese study shows that semen retention increases testosterone levels by a staggering 47.7% after 7 days! Not only will you last longer, you will also be harder and more turned on. As testosterone plays a huge part in building muscle, men practising semen retention and weight lifting report an increase in muscle mass too.
We all know that athletes are told not to have sex the day before an important event. It’s not the sex that’s the problem, building sexual energy would be a good thing, it’s the ejaculation that causes problems.
Every time you ejaculate, you are draining your vital life-force energy. Your body gives the best of the best of you to produce a baby. And not just one, you could produce millions every time. No wonder your body shuts down afterwards and needs to replenish itself. Many men are in a state of constant depletion, but you don’t even notice, because that is what you are used to.
According to Taoist Sexual Master Mantak Chia, men that practice semen retention during sexual activity double their brain energy. There is also evidence that men experience enhancement of love and affection for his woman.
All of this being said, it is important for men to ejaculate sometimes. Different Tantric experts recommend different frequencies. We think it is important to acknowledge that every man is different and it’s important for you to work out what is right for you.
During your session, semen retention is just one of the subjects we will teach you, you will also get some fun homework. For more information please get in touch firstname.lastname@example.org.
What Women Really Want
Now I know this is a huge generalisation, and in honesty, it is actually what I want. However, I represent the feminine and imagine many women deep down feel like this, even if they might not even be aware of it (I wasn’t for most of my life). I also want you guys to know that I am not blaming you, just trying to shed light on areas we can all work on to make us all happier and more connected.
So, let’s start with connection. Until I started exploring Tantra I didn’t have a clue what connection really meant. I was disconnected to myself and others.
When we truly connected we let our guards down, we become vulnerable, we are seen for who we really are. Every part of us is allowed to be just as it is and we are accepted.
We want to be able to connect with ourselves and we want to be able to connect with our partner. We want to be seen, heard and accepted and we want the same from you. We want to see every part of you the good, the bad and the ugly.
We want you to be honest (that includes not withholding anything). We don’t want you to pretend to be something you are not. We can’t really connect with you if you are hiding a part of yourself. We want to see you and we want to be seen.
We want to be heard. We want you to help us find our voice. Our real voice, not the voice we have ended up having due to conditioning and beliefs (even though we do appreciate if you listen to that too).
Our bodies, and particularly our yonis, have shut down because we haven’t listened to them. After a while they give up. They become painful or numb and we are unable to experience pleasure.
You can help us heal and awaken our yonis again, but you have to follow the voice of the yoni, not the voice in your head or your sexual energy.
We know you have been taught to keep pushing and we have been taught to override our own needs. However, that just shuts us down even more. An amazing lover can read his woman’s yoni better that she can herself. He can also control his sexual energy (which has other amazing benefits).
You have the ability to heal and open us up, but you have to learn how to.
We want to feel safe to express ourselves. Women are more outwardly emotional than men (well have permission to be by society). We need you to just be there while we let it out, we might even start an argument.
Please don’t bite, just accept us in every moment. We will calm down, come back to you and love you even more.
And probably the most important thing is trust. We need to be able to trust you.
For thousands of years women have been abused, raped and controlled. Those fears are still deep inside us. Help us rebuild the trust between us that we once had.
When you follow through on all your promises and commitments, we feel we can trust you. We will open and surrender and give ourselves to you.
If we fall, we need to know that you will catch us. If we let our guards down, we need to know you will hold the space.
If you don’t follow through on your word, we will gradually withdraw (even if it’s something small you promised like hoover the kitchen). No matter what you promise, we need you to follow through. If you can’t keep your promise, tell us, re-negotiate, communicate with us.
Every single time you are honest about your intentions and you back it up with your actions, you build another layer of trust. Our hearts and our yonis open another layer. By honouring your word, you are honouring your woman.
We can help you become that man, connect with your woman, bring a woman into your life and much more Lisa ❤️
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